I think a big part of the problem is that it is incredibly expensive to go premium and all you can do is post a profile for free. We are such a specific community of people that our options are always going to be limited but it's almost like there are fewer of us online than there are in the real world community. I just think that there would be more people on the site if the pricing were more reasonable, if they had trial memberships, and if they advertised it better. I only found out about this site because I searched for it specifically. It's hard enough for people like us, I think. This site is supposed to make it easier.