I have been a member here for several weeks now, but still not a full paying member. I have joined a couple of paying sites in the past, but by and large found the experience to be a little disappointing, so the jury is still out as to if I will become a paying member.
I think also when you are an older member like I am, the number of people in your age range start to dwindle. When I do a search, I search for ladies 10 years either side of my age. You do not find many within a 100 mile radius.
I wonder the same as you Caz, how many here are paying members?
It's iffy, I've had no luck connecting with people mainly due to my own negligence of responding back on time. I'm running my own company now, so I unfortunately don't have much time trying to find a romantic interest, or make new friends. I wish we could actually share our contact info in the forums rather than in a chatroom. It'd make connecting with ppl that much simpler.
Hi Caz, love your photo too, you seem a very cool lady, i wouldn't pay for this site though I've been on this site and other asexual dating sites asexualitic, ace-book etc and found the users of this the worst for ignoring you or just not wanting to chat, quite a few times i've had users message me, i respond and then nothing, i don't understand if you on this site then surely you here like me to try and meet someone special or at the least make some new friends, i don't believe for a minute in real life if any of the users on here came up to me said hi, i then replied they'd then just ignore me so why do it online, it's just a bit rude, i can understand being shy and introverted in normal day to day life but online we can allow each other to see our real selves and look beyond that as so we can build something good, moan over
I wont be renewing my membership on here. It is really dead. And the men that do respond, are too emotionally dead or strange to really want to build any friendship or connection.....it's weird. I'm very asexual but I did come on this site to make a connection. Its hard to make a connection when the men barely log on, and when they do, they send short criptic messages, or they say nothing at all....this is ridiculous......I'm so highly disappointed =(