I'm new this site. I've just recently discovered that i'm asexual, since i was growing up, everyone having raging hormones i felt different from everyone else; i just put it down being a late 'bloomer' or just weird because i don't seek anybody in 'that' way. I've been signing up to Asexual sites but come to nothing as everyone is inactive...where is everyone?
This thread is going on a year old, but I just joined a couple of days ago. I got the full membership and I've already talked to a couple of interesting people. It's so nice to finally have an outlet for this stuff. I didn't even discover asexuality until about a year ago and it pretty well clicked right then that that might be what I am. Didn't search for an Ace dating site until like a week ago and was surprised I found as much as I did. I hope this site continues to grow and maybe builds more of a user base. We really need spaces like this. Actually, I hope Ace visibility in general becomes more of a thing.
Hello, I joined, as I was curious and hopeful that I wasn’t alone in how I feel. It feels so good to hear other people’s experience and stories to know that I really am not just a bit weird, frigid as I’ve been called, or not found the right one. I haven’t had the best relationships, as I struggled to fit in to what was expected of me.
I’ve been ridiculed and humiliated by past partners, made to feel like there’s something wrong with me, how could I possibly not be interested in having sex with them on demand, they sent me to the doctors to find out what was wrong with me and obviously there was nothing they could help me with. They said you probably just don’t love them anymore and should end the relationship.
I recently came across an article about asexuality and just felt like it was written about me. Its ok not to be sexually attracted to others. I’m not so much of a freak after all. So that led me to do some more googling about it online and I ended up here.
Oh, I'm so happy to hear that it's not just my experience! All asexual sites I've signed up to seem like deserted ghost sites. However I think most people on this website don't have membership, so it's nearly impossible to have a conversation. If it was free I feel like people would be more active. Just sad.
Hello! I feel the same way. I’ve been trying to join these sites created specifically for asexuals, but there never seems to be any active members on them. It’s difficult, when meeting asexuals in real life seems nearly impossible. I thought maybe online it might be easier but I guess not.